Parents, grandparents, coaches, teachers, and mentors --You will want to read this if you are concerned about increasing positive self-esteem in yourself and others.

Hello from beautiful Montana!

Words can be deadly weapons or protective layers of love.  They can bruise and batter a person, no matter how old, in the heart and spirit just like physical blows can cause damage to the outside of the body.

Because these bruises to the spirit are not readily apparent, many think that the damage is easily repaired.  However, while verbal abuse may be long forgotten or dismissed by the offender, the words and memory are lodged in the cells and memory of the child or person who was emotionally assaulted.

The fear of rejection stops many very talented and skilled people from achieving their full potential in life.  They become paralyzed by frustration, guilt and discouragement, hoping and praying that someone will have the key to open the potential that is being held captive in their mind.

Building Self Confidence With Encouraging Words will unlock your potential and open the door of success, happiness and more nurturing relationships!

You will learn:

	How to build an encouragement sandwich
	How to ask for what you want
	How your core belief system came to be
	Why self-confidence is a learned skill
	How to use positive self-talk
	Why positive action follows positive thought
	How to correct others in a supportive way
	Why communication is more than just words
	How to set boundaries and build respectful relationships
	How to appreciate and acknowledge success
	And one of the most important lessons is that encouragement  is a gift of courage

 
“One isn’t necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. 
Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. 
We can’t be kind, merciful, generous, or honest.” 
Maya Angelou

Please be courageous enough today to take the small risk in ordering this life changing material.

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I have expanded the popular book by the same name into an eCourse that you can do in the privacy of your own home.  An eCourse is a book with worksheets that help you to personalize the concepts and develop a working plan of action.

 

Print it out, study it online or listen to it 
on your iPod.

However you learn, this information will change your life.

Learn more about the 5 characteristics of low self confidence and how they influence and detract from a joyful and abundant life.

1. Fearful of change or setting boundaries

2. Pessimistic and see the glass as half empty

3. Not able to communicate what they really want from life

4. More apt to please others more than be true to themselves

5. Forming toxic relationships that reflect and increase their lack of self-worth.

How would you like to help you or your child go from Coward to Confidence  
in one week?

 

Is it Possible to Change Your Words and Posture and Change Your Life?

"Yes!  Words, thoughts, and non-verbal expressions send a vibration into the universe and a message to the listener and bystanders.  When we project a victim stance, vocabulary, or attitude, others perceive us in a negative manner and are repelled rather than drawn to us."

• These techniques, ideas and methods will work for Anyone, no matter what negative tapes and thoughts are clamoring in the “monkey mind” right now.

• Self confident people inspire confidence in others; their bosses, their customers, their teachers or mentors, their teammates, their families and especially their friends.

• Learn if you are sub-consciously sabotaging efforts to make friends and influence people.

 

Would you like to be more confident in dealings with others?  

Would you like the opportunity to turn toxic relationships into nurturing interactions?

Are you anxious to find new methods to persuade people?

 

This eCourse can help you or your loved reframe the old thought patterns and achieve the 5 characteristics of 
High Self Confidence.

These factors are universal and can be learned if they are not present in your life right now. If they are present, then this eCourse will enhance and cement them in your daily life.

People with high self-confidence are:

1. Ambitious and strive to learn

2. Goal oriented and have a written plan of action

3. Able to communicate and ask for what they want

4. Loving, kind and willing to help others succeed

5. Attractive and open to new opportunities and friends
   
   

People who have unstoppable confidence in their ability to affect the journey of life stand out from the crowd.  They have a look of success about them. They, too, have had adversity and rough times along the road, but have learned to separate what happens from who they are. They are more resilient (bounce back) and have worked on the skills necessary to get out of stuck places and reframe their thoughts and actions. 

Confidence, self esteem or sure knowledge of who you are comes from self inspection of core beliefs, thought and behavior patterns.  It is an intimate experience that will take time and honest reflection.

 

The hardest part of confidence for me is accepting compliments! I know it sounds crazy, but I used to downplay or try to justify why whatever I had done wasn’t perfect.  Now, I just smile and say “Thank You.”  It was fun teaching these concepts to my kids.  It made us all realize how many conversations could be rephrased to be more positive.


Bethany Loosli, Idaho
www.JerkyKids.com  

There is no greater barrier to strong, healthy and mutually respectful relationships than lack of confidence. When you learn the skills and techniques to move from:

• Shy wallflower to a lively conversationalist

• Conflict to cooperation in relationships

• Stuck in a rut to successful

• Victim to victorious

• Limiting beliefs to unlimited potential

• Mired in past events to miracles every day

• Discouragement to Encouragement
  

You will experience not only outer success but inner peace. Once you have grasped the message, I ask that you teach it to others.  Give them the gift of encouragement also.

Self-confidence is a learned skill and anyone, from 1 to 101, can learn how to be:

• More positive in stressful situations

• More courageous to try new things and opportunities

• More outgoing in social situations

• More assertive in setting boundaries
  

Like all learned skills, it takes daily practice and focus until it becomes automatic action. 

We can help you!

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I love going to Judy’s classes and being on the board of StoryKeepers with her.  She is the great “encourager” and helps us come up with solutions and reframe negative experiences into learning situations.


Michele Wheeler
www.StoryKeepers.com  

Our gram cracker Judy taught us to like ourselves and love each other.  She also encouraged us to listen to our heart and not other people.  Just because someone calls you a name or teases on the playground, doesn’t mean it is true! You can choose to get your feelings hurt or just ignore it.  If you know in your heart you are a good, kind person, then who cares what they say?

Lexi, Amanda and Melissa, cousins
 

I want to share a story about these three cousins.  A few years ago at a family reunion, they asked me to go for a walk with them.  Even though they live in different parts of the country, they had all experienced “the playground pecking order.”  Something I am sure you remember from being a child.  I know I do, and my stomach tightens just thinking about it.

They wanted to know how to handle the mean kids, you know who I am talking about; the bullies, the Queen Bee and her court, the tattler, the trouble maker and gossip.

As we walked and talked, we all decided that while we can’t change the world, we can strengthen ourselves.  We can make sure that we are never the one hurting someone else. We can encourage, praise and befriend those who are being left out.

As we watched the  weather we could see clouds gathering over the beautiful mountains and the wind begin to blow indicating an oncoming storm.  We stood huddled in our jackets and appreciated the panorama of nature expanding in front of our eyes.

Lexi remarked that we are given “clues and cues” about upcoming danger just like our earlier talk about listening to our inner voice, intuition or heart.  We then have a choice to stay or go.

Amanda agreed that bad conditions can come quickly from many directions at once, and may surprise and discourage you if you are not aware.  You could feel helpless or afraid.  It can either be a big problem or a little inconvenience.

But it was little Melissa who taught us the greatest lesson as we held hands and raced for the comfort of home.  She said, “It doesn’t matter what happens on the outside, because the mountain is so strong inside, it will still be standing there for our grandchildren.”

That solid core of self confidence on the inside is what I would like to give each of you. You were born to stand tall and majestic like a mountain.  You may have forgotten how many gold nuggets are hidden inside of you.  Let us help you mine the treasures within.  

Just a few of the things included in the book and how they will affect your life:

• How to encourage and motivate others...  
  You will be able to assume leadership roles
  
  

• Four important parts of a communication... 
  You will be able to understand the hidden agendas in conversations and avoid misunderstandings.  
  
  

• Same words, different meanings...
  You will learn so much about body language and facial expressions and how even tone of voice can change how a message is given and received.  
  
  

• Reframing past hurts...
  You will learn to look at childhood pain with an adult’s understanding. You may be holding onto limiting beliefs that were never true.  
  
  

• Criticism is punitive...
  You will learn about the positive aspect of discipline with dignity and respect.
    
  

• Positive correction that changes behavior...
  You will learn powerful methods of stating acceptable and unacceptable behavior that gains cooperation.  
  
   

• Three most negative words in English language...
  Yikes!  You will be amazed at how often these words come roaring out of our mouths.  I was. But now I think of a way to say yes instead of no.  
  
  

• Three most positive words in English language...
  (Hint—Change is Possible.)  This may be the most powerful lesson of all.  
  
  

• We are hardwired for success...
  Our bodies and spirits are born wanting more.  We want to achieve, reach, grow, develop, expand. Sometimes we just need to be reminded of what we really want and then have courage to reach for it.  
  
   

• Attracting a positive reaction...
  You will learn to be more confident in social situations. You will learn the body language that tells other people you want to be friends.  
  
  

• What does your body language say...
  You may be saying one thing with your words, but a totally different message is coming through with posture, facial expression, tone of voice and especially placement of hands. Learn how to communicate more effectively on all levels.  
  
  

• And, a special section that includes over 101 words, phrases, and messages to encourage positive action and cooperation!

What is your learning style? We all have different learning styles and so you will find this eCourse is designed to help you learn in the style that will be most comfortable for you:

• Visual:  This is the style 80% of us learn best with and we need to be able to see it on the screen. The ecourse is sent as a  downloadable product that you can store on your computer to read and study at will.  
  
  

• Auditory: 10% of us learn best by hearing and so we have included a MP3 download Free!  
  
  

• Kinesthetic:  Some people learn best when touching, so you will definitely need to feel  the paper, write on it, and experience it in every way.

This is your message.  I am only the messenger.  I encourage you to use this material and absorb it into your heart as you practice the skills and techniques you are learning.

If you respond today, you pay the introductory price of only $27 (and that includes all of the bonuses!) because we want to share the message of hope and encouragement.

This is the same book I sold at an Adoptive and Foster Parent’s conference for $30.00, without any bonuses, and completely sold out in four hours!

 

Act immediately and receive the following
FREE bonuses...

Bonus 1: MP3 download of Judy's tele-class on Building Self Confidence with Encouraging Words ($49)

Listen and learn while you exercise, work or relax.  You will love Judy’s approachable, non judgmental way of helping the participants find their own answers.  

 

 

Bonus 2: Download of Jack Canfield’s Achievers Focusing System ($10)

This will help you set goals and focus on the positive in every area of your life.  

Bonus 3:  Parenting For Success! ($19.99)

The book is the "ultimate child development and parenting handbook!"  This eBook includes information on parenting philosophy, parenting styles, communication and discipline techniques as well as child mental health and developmental topics.

 

Bonus 4:  Create the Life You Want!  Utilizing the Power of the Balance Living Wheel by Darlene Braden ($49)

Feel the freedom of a balanced day and a balanced life with this 34 page eBook.  Packed with a wealth of information to help you transform your life using the power of the Living Wheel.

What will happen if you don’t buy this today?

•         Nothing.  I won't know that you made the decision not to buy.  I am a messenger with a message of hope and respect, but I recognize that not everyone will be ready today.  When you are ready, I am confident you will come back.
  
  

•       But until then, you will still be doing the same things you were doing last week and last year and feeling bad about yourself

  
  

•       Your child, or the children you have in your circle of influence, will not be able to be taught these life enhancing concepts.